For nearly 45 years, my Dad would mark a Valentine's Day, which also happens to be my mom’s birthday, with chocolate and flowers. A large dozen roses or giant box of chocolates for my mom and single rose or smaller chocolates for my 3 sisters and me. But when my own husband gifted me with chocolates and flowers on our first married Valentine’s Day, I was seriously disappointed and underwhelmed.

Is it the thought that counts… or the feelings that lead up to it… And that is what we are going to tackle today.

My guest is Cheryl Choate Bowen, Intimacy Coach and Sexual Health Consultant. (904) 349-0922

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