Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back to another episode, a couple of nukes as always. I'm your host, Mr. Whisky. And today we are here with a guest called the bowl dozer. He is a nuclear operator and mechanic in the United States Navy. And he is here to talk to us about a couple of different things. And so without further ado, I'm going to let him go ahead and introduce himself. Hey guys, how's it going? I'm Mr. Bulldozer here. I'm gonna share some insight with you. Yep, and that's actually, that's, as soon as he sits down on a date, That's how he introduces himself. Oh yeah, right. It's worth 100 percent success rate, correct? Right? No, then what's your go to line?
You got a go to line? On a date? Yeah. Like, like a pick up line or like, like just, just when I first, when I already, you know, secured the date? You, so, we talked yesterday. You started Facebook dating, actually, and you said it's working pretty well. Do you send the same text every time or do you? Nah, I'm creative.
You always comment on a picture or you comment on a personality trait? What do you, what do you do? What's your method? What's your secret to all the women you have in your DMs right now? I kind of check out like their profile and just, you know, personalize it to them. I feel that works the best. If you, a copy paste line doesn't really work that well.
So you kind of look through their pictures. If they put a lot of effort into their profile or anything like that, you can. Okay, yeah. You can kind of go from there. And they'll normally respond. They're normally pretty responsive to that. Now, have you used Bumble at all? Nah, I actually haven't. Not a sponsor.
I've used it because that's where women have to make the first move. So you match with someone and it lasts for 24 hours and then expires if they don't message you. So the issue is people who aren't actively checking their phone or on the app or are busy, that match can expire, which kind of sucks.
Women have to make the first move. So it's given them a chance for me to get some pickup lines and One of the most creative ones it was kind of cringe honestly, but I thought it was interesting Someone sent me a dog emoji and then they texted. Oh like Rocky here boy come back and then they said sorry My dog can't help but go into cute boys DMS and I was like, it's like really cringy But it was, I thought it was funny.
It was something different. Yeah, no, that sounds interesting. The worst one I ever got was, Some girl sent me a GIF of Bugs Bunny saying, What's up, Doc? And I just did not like it at all. Like, there was nothing wrong with it, but I was like, I just don't know. I don't know why, I'm a big Looney Tunes fan.
I think that would have worked on me. Would have worked on you. Yeah. For me, not so much. I'll tell you, it just didn't work for me. I've had some girls who only like, they just spam GIFs, and then finally they'll talk. I don't mess with that.
Yeah, no, no, definitely gotta have something going. Like, some kind of words. That's a little weird. But I would say the dog was the best one. And I saw it later on the internet, I was like, okay. You've browsed on Tinder a lot, you got any Any bios that you've seen that you just hate, like, girls that copy paste stuff in their bio, like, you know, the difference between me and Mosquito is that I don't stop sucking when you slap me, or Sea Turtles, I like getting choked, but Sea Turtles don't, like, I've seen a lot of them.
I won't lie, like, it doesn't really stick in my head, you know, like, if you're, you know, you're kinda going through, there's so many, the only ones that really stick in my head are the ones that I actually make on dates, I mean, the rest of them are just in and out, so, I'll unmatch them or something, I don't know.
It doesn't really, so a lot of the bios don't really stick in my head. The only ones that I actually think about are the ones that make it into my phone book. Interesting. Okay. I guess, strange compliment I got once. There was this Asian woman about two miles west of Charleston. And she was like, Yeah, I had 276 guys add me from Tinder onto Snapchat.
And she goes, You're in the top 10 list of not weird and not mid. I was like, all right, out of 276, I guess I'll take it. But honestly, you know, that's a red flag. Well, yeah, but that brings a good point to kind of change subjects here. But, you know, like you said, you're in the, out of 276, I think nowadays in society, there's plenty of pretty women out there, right?
Like blonde hair, hourglass figure, whatever, just, you know, what we find attractive in Western society. But there's not as many high value men. I feel like as a man, if you're willing to just put a little effort into yourself, like go to the gym, eat healthy, work hard in your career, like you don't even have to like, I'm not even saying like, Oh, work 12 hours a day, seven days a week.
You know, work yourself to the bone. Even just two or three times a week. Just, yeah if you just work hard to better yourself and become a high value man, you're already probably in the top 20%. Cause men nowadays are, like, they're being bred to be weak, bro.
Like, And I think it's, I don't know, man, it's, it's not good for society. I think there's a big movement going on to where we're, they're trying to fix it. But I don't, I think there's also a big opposition to that by by the people that it doesn't help their agenda basically. Right. What's your opinion on skincare?
Cause I know a lot of guys might say, Oh, that's for women. It's too many steps. They get lazy. I think taking care of your skin as a man is really important because that's a big differentiating factor right there. Your teeth, your skin, taking care of your appearance is a big deal because just that one little thing that you do automatically puts you above all those guys that don't do it.
So like skin care routine or a Invisalign to fix your teeth or, you know, just keeping yourself well groomed, that's automatically putting you above so many men. Like Even a lot of the guys that we work with, honestly. And I, well, I was going to say, there was actually a sailor in my A school class who no one would sit by him because he smelled so bad.
And they almost gave him an LOI for showering, as in he did not shower. I mean, if you, so I look at, look at it like this, right? You want a chick to like you. Right? Right. So what I like to do, go in there, go. No Chick likes a stinky guy, first of all. So I, I like to go and look in the mirror, right? And look at myself and think like, well, we knew that if you were a chick, would you fuck? And I'm saying like, if you were a chick yourself. Would you fuck yourself? Like, really, and be critical, don't Yeah, don't be biased I like to do that and like to be super critical about it like from a neutral perspective and try to use that to improve on myself.
So like what about me? Needs improvement and just be critical and build my confidence that way. Like I like to, that's one thing about the gym that I love, man. It's the progress pictures, slowly seeing improvements and slowly keeping that consistent grind and learning discipline and just that little bit of discipline, being able to meet longterm goals is going to put you above a lot of people.
So let me ask you then, Bodozer. How do you combat not being motivated or disciplined? How do you maintain that? Because for a lot of people, they'll start and then they stop. They get demotivated. They're not seeing progress fast enough. You know, that kind of stuff. So me personally, mom, I think it's a change of mindset.
You have to change your mindset to think you have to do it. Rather than you want to, a lot of people say, Oh, I should do this, or I want to do this, or, Oh, I'm going to start doing this tomorrow, make it an option. Yeah. Like not even make it an option. Say you, I have to go to the gym today. Have to, it's about, it's mostly about discipline because motivation comes and goes, right?
Right. There's weeks where I'm not motivated. There's weeks where I am motivated, but you still go, but I still go because of the discipline. So discipline is key. Building that discipline comes from changing your mindset to being like, Okay, you have to do this. Not you want to, not you should. I have to go to the gym four to five times a week.
I have to do cardio six to seven times a week. And, it's, you have to eat right. Not you want to eat right. Not I want to be healthy. Fuck what you want. What you want is not gonna bring you success. Like, oh, people are like, Oh, I'm gonna do a career that makes me happy. Fuck that. Fuck that. That shit, If, if that career that makes me happy only makes me fucking 30 grand, I could give a fuck less.
Cause you know what? At the way society is right now, bro, I'm the only people can say, Oh, money doesn't bring happiness. Money doesn't bring happiness. You know, the people can say that the people have been rich all their life. When you come from the fucking gutter and you have to build up to that, like you know, the difference in life, like you're not gonna fucking, how do I say it?
You're not going to get there and be like, Oh, money doesn't bring happiness. I'm not saying the money necessarily brings happiness. Like you can't be happy unless you have money. That's not true. But I'm saying that it definitely improves your lifestyle and gives you more financial freedom to do more things that make, and it, and it makes it easier to do those things that are going to make you happy.
Right, and it's like, work is to make money, so then in my free time, I can do whatever I want. You know, not, work is fun, leisure time, and then I go home and it's fun leisure time. Yeah, I know. You know, you need that part of the day where you have to do something, you know, to make that money. I think that's where the gem also translates into life.
Because, you know, A lot of people, you know, like I personally love the gym, and I think it's a lot of fun. Does it, when I'm underneath the fucking, the rack, and I'm pushing up that, that last rep, does it feel good? No. I mean, hurts less now, but like, obviously, You're going to be sore, it's going to hurt, especially when you first get into it the first couple weeks, you're going to be really sore, it's going to be really painful, but like they say, no pain, no gain, so I look at work very similar to that, you shouldn't, your job, you shouldn't be like, oh, I need to go to work and be happy, you know, it should be so easy, and You know, and they still pay me.
Well, the reason people pay more for certain jobs is because they're more hard, like a more stressful, harder job. So that's why bricklayers get paid more construction workers get paid more because it's more physically demanding, more hard, like more demanding on your body, harder, you're sore the next day.
Like, versus like, secretary where I answer the phone all day. Yeah, I sit in the AC, I sit in the fuckin air conditioned office and pick up, you know, answer some phone calls, write down some notes. And again, it's also a mindset, whether you enjoy work or not, and regardless of how good your mindset is, work can always just be a drag no matter what.
But it's still, it is what you make it, you know. Oh, 100%. I agree. I agree. Yeah. Yeah. No, so yeah, that's, that's how I just approach life and I think, that mentality changing your mindset to, to do that will just put you ahead in all aspects of life. Like I've always all my life and anything I've attacked, I felt like I've always been slightly above average, like at really good grades all through high school, college.
And I was only, I was putting in just a little bit more effort than everyone else. And I was also really smart, but I think what always puts me just a little above average in every endeavor I take on is just a little bit more effort than I'm willing to put in than the other people were doing the same.
Just to explore your mindset a little bit and backtracking to our earlier discussion, when you enter a room full of men, it could be five people, it could be 10 people. Do you imagine, all right now, if a hot woman entered the room, would she pick me out of this crowd? Just based on looks. 100%. So you have that self evaluation at home, and then you have the, well, I'm also competing against other people.
Well, yeah, it's also about confidence. So, no woman is going to be attracted to an unconfident man. So yes, you have the self evaluation at home like I was speaking on earlier. And that's just to improve yourself. But you need the confidence in yourself to Because women, one of the big things that women are attracted to is confidence.
So if you're not confident in yourself, if you don't speak with authority You know try to have some leadership about yourself, try to poke your chest out, put your shoulder blades back, stand tall, be confident in yourself, because if you're, if you don't think you're a catch yourself, how can you expect a woman to think you're a catch?
Your mindset should be you. Your mindset should not be, Oh, this woman is such a great girl. She's such a catch. No, your mindset should be, she's lucky that I'm giving her my evening. She's lucky to be spending this time with me. Because if you don't think you're a catch, how is she going to think you're a catch?
Obviously, you're going to look for the best woman you can, you're looking for a catch. But she also needs to think you're a catch. And a lot of men, the mistake they make nowadays, is they put these women up on pedestals like, Oh, this is the best woman, this is the most beautiful woman. Right, they go off of Instagram followers and pictures and likes, and you know, it's all these shallow And what they don't realize, they're always like, Oh, you're so beautiful baby, you're so beautiful, you're so pretty.
Oh my God, you're so great. I given them all these compliments, all this validation. Like I don't compliment girls. You know why? Because men don't get hyped up like that on social media. Well, there's that I'm saying, I'm not even saying on, on, on social media, I definitely don't do it on social media, but I don't even compliment them on real life.
I'll like, I might, if they put some extra effort into their dress or their outfit, they really dress up nice. Oh, you dress really nice tonight, but I'm not going to be like, Oh, baby, you're so beautiful. You're so lovely. You know all this because they already get that from every other simp in their DMS Hyping and flighting their ego.
Why do you also need to do that? That's not making you stand out as a man Especially when you're just now meeting a girl you like for the very first time you just met the chick, right? And you start immediately Oh baby, you're so beautiful. Yeah, now you're just an average man. You're automatically just an average man.
You gotta notice the small things. Exactly, in her head. And women, a lot of women don't even realize they're doing it. They don't really, because they do it subconsciously. They compare you to the most alpha man that they've been. So the man that they think was the best man that they've been with, now that they're back on the dating market.
They compare you to that man. So, if they think, oh, this is the best man I've been with in their head subconsciously. Now they're on the dating market. Everything you do, subconsciously, they're comparing to that man that they thought was the best man. That's right. And going back to pick up lines and the first text, especially with everyone online dating what you say, like we said, they've heard hundreds of times.
That's why it's important to have something unique, because you're being compared, but also just going working on some mindset stuff for confidence. A lot of men have trouble being confident, but when you are, I have noticed better results because what I've noticed in my personal life is that if I am taking, I attract women 10 times more than when I'm single.
And what I've related it to, and maybe it's just a correlation, but I've related it to confidence because when I am taken, I constantly have my significant other boosting up my confidence because, I'm already taken, they're telling me nice things every day. And then I'm like, you know what, I'm doing great.
And then I walk around the mall or the town or wherever, and I'm not looking. And part of it is. Women are more confident when you're not looking. So I'm saying if you have trouble being confident, maybe act like you're taking act, like you already have the hottest girl in the world and you will be confident.
Well, what I, what I like to, what I like to say is be a man with options. So like never be talking to this chick and think she's the best option or your only option, because at the end of the day, man, there's more beautiful women out there than high value men. Yeah. So if you truly consider yourself a high value man, like you truly think you're a catch and you work on yourself and you try to put yourself in that top 20 percent of men, top 15 percent of men and, you walk around with that mindset, like that confident mindset, you have your chest out and you think you're You know, like you said, confidence, like they, women are very sensitive to like they sense this shit.
It's like, they have like a sixth sense, it goes back to protector, you know, knight and princess kind of lifestyle where women, of course, a lot of women want to be independent nowadays, but they want to be independent in the sense that if a man leaves them, they can take care of themselves. But while in a relationship, Women still want a man who protects them, who will stand up for them, who will take care of them.
If you're not confident and you look like you can't take care of yourself or others, then how can they trust you to take care of them? So that's one flaw with society is women always want to date an equal or up. That's why as a man, it's your duty to become the best man you possibly can. Right. Like, it is your duty, and that's how I think of it.
It's my duty. To, to my family, to my father, to my mother, become the best man I possibly can, because women are always going to want to date an equal or they're not going to want to date like a bum, like no woman wants to date a bum. For sure. It's very rare that you see that, but you will see men. State women who are below them, I don't wanna say lower than them, but because they are no expected to be the provider.
No, that's exactly, it's lower than them. A, a dude go pick up a chick from McDonald's if she's a 10. Right. And he can be a six figure dude. He can be making 150 KA year and the little McDonald's cashier if she is absolutely stunning. And he thinks she's gorgeous. So, but now you take a woman who is a CEO of a company.
She's a guy who works at McDonald's. Right. She's not dating him in no way. She won't even look his way. He can have the best riz. He can be a cute dude or a 10 out of 10 and be trying to rizzle her up. And she's going to see him in his McDonald's uniform. And she's like, cause they care about status while men care about looks.
It's just how it is. Men care about, I mean, women care about your confidence and your status. Like looks, looks obviously like matter a little bit to them, but not as much. They care about confidence, your status. Your future while men care about your past, your looks and your personality. You know, I'll say that that's very much true.
Women care about men's future and men care about women's past. Because think about it. Think about it. Most men, like a lot of men like to front, especially with the way society is now and feminism, all that stuff. A lot of men like to front like, Oh, I don't care. But at the end of the day, man.
If you're dating a chick and she comes out and on the third or the fourth date and tells you she has a body count of fucking 200 you can sit here in front all day but you're going to that's going to be in your head you're going to be like man dudes man that's oh how is that even possible she has to be just smashing every dude that hits her up on instagram or just going to bars every single weekend and just hooking up with random strangers And at that point, is that wife material?
Is that who you want raising your kids? Is that who you want raising your daughters? You want I mean, it's not who I want raising mine, so I mean, if that's who you want raising your daughter, your future little princess, Your the mother's gonna be telling you, Yeah, just go to the bars and hook up with, you know, random dudes.
Woman power. No, dude, my freakin wife ever told my daughter that, I'd leave her. I'd divorce her. I met a woman like that, and she was like, Well You need to get out of your system while you're young, otherwise you'll end up like this curmudgeon who's cranked up and has these, all these other issues as a result.
Oh yeah, of course, you need to be a whore while you're young. Makes sense. Right, not good advice, but, and we're not saying you're, you're redeemable if you've slept with other men, like, It happens. People make mistakes. Sometimes you get in relationships that are really serious. And then they, Oh, no, okay. So no, not at all.
Like if a woman has been in, you know, three, four serious relationships, of course, I expect that she'd slept. If a woman told me, yeah, I've been in four serious relationships. I expect that she slept with all of them. Unless she's like waiting to marriage or something. Which is rare in our society. Yeah, it's rare.
It's rare nowadays. But I'm saying, it's not a big deal to me. I don't think that's bad at all. She was in 4 series relationships and she had sex with them all. Just hooking up, randomly. But I'm saying like, yeah, like, just for, And, and even just a random hookup every now and then, whatever. If they've, if a woman came to me and she's like, yeah, I've been with AD, I'm not gonna trip.
It's, it's, especially if she's like 25 or something. I mean, if she started having sex when she was 16 or 17, you know, that's not that bad. It's like, it's, it's really not. So it's the ones that are like 50, 100. Right. To, you know, like, when they start getting up there. Even, even once you start getting above like 25, 30, it's like, dude, you have, you so what?
Cause if you look at your 25 year old woman, she says, Oh, you've had sex with 30 dudes. Well you do. More than one of you. Yeah. If she started having sex as a baby. That means that she started having sex probably because on average it's around 16. Freshman, sophomore year. Yeah, 16, maybe 17 if she's a little late, maybe even 18.
Honestly, I think. That means she's only been having sex. It's shifting even younger. Yeah, it is. I'm starting to hear stories about people in like 7th, 8th grade starting to try stuff. Yeah, but I'm just saying. That just means like she's been going crazy since then. Hasn't had any, that means she hasn't showed any commitment to any man because she's had sex with 30 dudes. And that means she's doing two or three a year. That means she has not been in any serious relationships. So she doesn't know how to have a relationship. She hasn't matured yet. None of that. And she's already 25 years old and she doesn't know how to be a girlfriend.
You've never been someone's girlfriend? The issue with that is, so I was in a relationship with a woman who had commitment issues. They were younger than me. And if you're their first serious relationship, You're not gonna be the one they commit to, you're gonna be the one that starts to change your mindset, but they're gonna kind of freak out, push you away.
Mm-Hmm, . And then you kind of help shape them for the next one. And that's unfortunate. I think though, one thing that men struggle with is we like, so we get in a serious relationship with a chick and then we kind of like latch on. So one thing I think you should do as a man, you should be willing to let go and that willingness to let go.
It's so much more attractive than like trying to latch on harder. So a lot of men, the woman starts to pull away and they try to latch on or they try to pursue harder. I'm guilty of that. Yeah, the woman tries to pull away and we try to chase them down. We're like, okay, we'll just catch them.
They're running, but we'll just run faster. Men get jealous. Yeah, so, but one thing that's more attractive as a man and it's a more masculine trait is, if they start to pull away, you just sit back and you go, okay, it's your loss. Cause it, if you truly change your mindset and you think of yourself as the catch, as one of, you know, like, dude, good luck trying to find a better man.
You know what I'm saying? So when a woman pulls back on me, my thought process is exactly that. I think good luck trying to find a better person than me and be searching, be searching through the weeds, you know what I'm saying? Because it's the mindset to have, especially if you see yourself as a like even if you're just top 20%, that means you're better than 80 percent of the men out there.
That means she's about to have to find a top 15 percent man to, to, you know what I'm saying? To, to find something better than you. And just looking at it from a statistical point of view, That's not easy. It's not easy. Yeah, we talked about that, about how much money men make and who's actually in that top 1 5 percent even.
Even the top 10%. I see these videos and I think, and it just surprises me by how delusional some women are. They'll be beautiful women, but like Dude, there's plenty of beautiful women out there and they'll say well how much does your man have to make a year to be with you? And she'll, her ego will be so inflated she'll say something like a million a year.
And that's, that's the top, not top 1%, that's like the top 5 percent of men in America. And the, and I'm like, and then on top of that, they want tall, you know, looks Exactly. They want all this. They want this fucking fairytale, non-existent thing. Cheers. A Greek guy. Exactly. I'm like, well, I'm saying that's that those guys do exist.
The guys who are tall make a million a year. Yep, they do. But I promise you, they're not out there to be monogamous to you. They. They got a roster, they got like 10 chicks. Yeah, I also want to say, just because I don't want us to be deemed as misogynistic podcasters, you know, we don't approve, at least me personally, Mr.
Whiskey, I don't approve of men having hella body counts either. You know, and I don't know, what's your opinion on that, because I know you've talked about having sex, not for romance or lust, just to have it, whereas sometimes, you, you feel like women Has sex for an emotional connection, men have sex for a physical connection.
Yeah, so men and women are wired biologically different. And it's been like this way since the dawn of time. It's the way, I'm a God fearing, God loving man. And God designed us in this way. Like, if you look all the way back to the dawn of time, you got You know, all these conquerors and war heroes, Alexander the gray, Genghis Khan, you got all these conquerors and great men who are like looked at as great war tacticians.
And all of them slept with hundreds of them. And they're still looked at, donned on, yeah, donned on as heroes. While you cannot name a single woman who was praised for her promiscuity, who was like, yes you did great, you slept with 500 men. And it's, there's a reason for that. Women are the gatekeepers to sex.
No man makes you, is gonna make you wait for sex. If you get a woman and she walks up to 100 men and just straight says like, let's have sex, I'd say like she'd probably have 80 bodies by the end of the week. While if you get a man to walk up to 100 women, and I'm talking about a good looking man and a good looking woman, you have two attractive people.
He's not gonna Fall as many bodies. Yeah, not even close. It might be 10, maybe. Cause women have their, I like to call it ASD, anti slut defense. Nobody likes to be called a slut. No one wants to be called a whore. And I understand it. I wouldn't, I mean. If I was a woman, I wouldn't be want to be called that either.
So I understand that. So what they, they, if when in a lot of those situations, they're going to say no, if a man just walks up to him and says, let's have sex today. But because if they do that, especially if there's people around who saw that interaction, they're going to be like, Oh, she's a slut. Look at him.
She had sex with him and he should know his name. You know what I'm saying? Or, Oh, she's a whore. Some women nowadays don't care, but I'm just saying like a lot of women do. And a lot of women care what people think, especially historically. Yeah, so like, and, uh, another thing is, so, it's about what men and women value.
Women keep saying, oh, well, we don't care about your body count, so why do y'all care about ours? Well, men value that. That is our preference. We prefer a woman with a low body count. Women prefer a tall, successful, you know, hardworking man to, to, with high status to, to protect and provide them. That's their preference.
No man out here is shaming women for liking tall. There's no short man out here shaming women for liking tall men. They're not like, Oh, I hate women. They only like tall guys. Da da da da da. No, they don't say that. So, but women are out here saying, Oh, men want these low body counts or men want these young women, dah, dah, dah, dah, you know, and they're shaming men for their preferences, but we don't do the same to them.
So, but they always like to say, Oh, it's a double standard. Men have high body counts. And, but there's so many double standards that are in their favor. Like I just said, we, they like to shame us for our preferences, but we don't do the same to them. So that's a double standard right there and there's plenty of others that I'm not gonna get into right now Because like it's more like laws and stuff that lean in right favorite Especially like children and stuff like that But I personally think I don't think like oh Every man should have a high body count.
That's not like what I'm saying, right? We shouldn't all go out here and Fuck hundreds of women, but I think we're not women. That's not a woman's preference is not that they don't care about that. I, I understand. Because if you offered, if I had a choice to women like me and one was a version and was broke and the other was rich, but had a lot of bodies, I would rather have the poor version to be honest.
I would too, and I wouldn't lie, I don't think there's an issue with that preference. I think, like you said, there's nothing wrong with having that. Preference. I think it's just the way men are. It's, it's also like, yeah, we're wired that way. It's literally 90% of men will answer that question the same way you just did.
Yeah. I don't care about a woman's money. You know why? 'cause women don't spend their money on us most of the time, not all the time. Obviously, most of the time the man funds the relationship, we pay for the trips, we pay for the dinners, especially in the beginning of phases of the relationship, like the first, second date, like third date, like all that stuff is funded by the man.
We're expecting to, even if the woman made more money, which at this phase, that phase in dating, you don't know who. Who's making what? Cause obviously you guys haven't told each other, but like most of the time, even if she's more successful, the man will still fund it. Like, that's a perfect point. So even with some modern movements, women are starting to split the check for dinner or pay for a day or get gifts.
But let's say a vacation. 100 percent it's going to be the main funding 100 percent and if women, at least like for me, asked me for anything, I would buy it for her, you know, it's also purchase shoes. It doesn't matter. But I feel like women also want to save money for the family because they had that maternal instinct as well.
Well, they have that instinct of that. They have that provide for children that we can't be wasting our money on, well, there's that. Video games. Call of Duty. There's that. And the fact is, they, so, let me see how to say this. That's why they want like a man who's equal status or higher status than them because they don't want to have to provide for a man.
It's just not in their biological nature. Like you were talking about with that CEO and the McDonald's worker earlier. That CEO woman looks at that McDonald's worker and realizes she will have to provide for him. Right. She doesn't want that. She doesn't want to take care of him. Like, we are wired to be providers.
I think she has every right to feel that way. That's fine, that's fine. Yeah, I don't, I don't shame her for that. I don't care. Cause I'm gonna take, you know what I'm saying? I'm a high status man. I don't know, I don't get it, no. Dude, it's, it's a man's duty to be successful, to, to, to, to not work at, like, I'm, maybe if he's 16 or 18, he's working at McDonald's in high school, that's fine.
We've all been there. But I'm saying like, if he's a full grown man and he's still working there, that's on, you know. So like, all I'm saying is, it's our duty to be successful, to raise our status, to attract more beautiful women. If you want a beautiful woman, you should raise your status as a man, you should go to the gym, you should work hard, you should try to make as much money as you possibly can.
I'm not saying you have to become a millionaire, duh, duh, duh, duh, but make as much money as you possibly can. As much money as you can, just do the small things. Like we said, work on your grooming, your tea, your skincare as a man. And that just puts you just, just levels up your appearance by one and just do everything you can keep it, keep a sharp haircut.
All that stuff just puts puts you at another level to attract those beautiful women. But like, I guess it's just the way the society is nowadays, which is fun. And I don't I have an issue with, you know, try and promote men being more sensitive or in touch with their feelings or, you know, trying to understand their significant others better, but there's a difference between understanding a woman and becoming a woman or, you know, throwing away all your masculine traits and values in order to understand them.
Being, being sensitive and all that is literally the opposite of masculine. And people say that, Oh, you should be more sensitive with your sniff go. But if you want to keep your significant other, if you want her to continue to be attracted to you for long term, if you start crying to your girlfriend, like, Oh my god, baby, and you're crying, I can't pay the bills, and, oh, work is so hard, I just want to quit.
There's a line, and I think there's certain topics. Yeah, your girlfriend's vagina's gonna dry up, she's gonna be like, I married a fucking pussy. He can't pay the bills. He's crying about his job. He's going to quit. And like I said earlier, women care about the future. If she starts seeing you do this, she's going to think, Oh my God, what's my future going to be like?
This guy is, is starting to struggle. He's he's, he's not wanting to, he's, he's started stopping. He's not working as hard. He's crying about his job. He's crying about not being able to pay the bills. Oh my God. If I have children with this guy and he can't pay the mortgage, we're going to lose the house, lose my, you know what I'm saying?
So they think, start thinking of, they think of their future. So if you start crying, losing your masculine energy, if you have problems, you keep it to yourself. Or if you really need to talk about it, go to your brothers, go to your friends, go to other men. You can talk to them about your issues because they're not going to judge you.
They're not going to immediately start thinking about themselves and thinking about the future. If you come to, like, for example, Ms. Whiskey, if you came to me with an issue, like, Oh, I'm having trouble with this or that, my mental, or I'm really struggling in this department. I'm not going to start thinking about my future and my judge.
You don't go to your significant other with those problems. And I strongly believe this because you don't want to worry them. You don't want to, yeah. You don't want that. We're actually here creates doubt distance and distance. Yeah, exactly. It just puts stress on your relationship too, right? Cause money's one of the big stressors in a relationship that.
And obviously if it's gonna really affect you like to where like it's gonna You're gonna lose the house or something. Obviously you have to tell them you should be honest and communicate. Yeah, but but there's a difference between Showing you have no idea what you're doing and communicating with him like hey, this is gonna be a bit of a difficult time But I have a solid plan, you know, we're working on this.
I just need your help with this this and that Yeah, exactly exactly how come already have a plan set up Be ready to confident worry. Exactly. It's you say, oh, we're gonna struggle in this apartment for a little while We're gonna have to cut back blah blah blah. I got it under control you're at the end of the day as a man.
It's your job to lead your household to a Future success like right like it's your job to do that. So if something's struggling you need to be like, okay Well, this is you need to go in and figure out what you're gonna do with it first Okay, we're struggling in this apartment, our finances are messed up here, she's spending too much here, and you go to her and you say, hey, babe, you're spending too much on this and that.
And you cut back, tracking the finances, we need more money in this apartment, I'm trying to invest over here in this, you know what I'm saying, this and that. I'm trying to set us up for the future and you're holding us back right now. So I really need you to buckle in, right? Like we're going to cut back on spending a little bit or whatever you need to do to get to that next level.
And, but I also think that's why, like when you're young and you're single and you're in your twenties, that's when you work the hardest. That's when you invest the most. That's when you should be in your twenties. You should not be saving shit there. You should not be putting no money in savings account.
You know where you put it. You put it in an investment portfolio. You put it in your IRA, put it somewhere. That's going to make you more money. A savings accounting going to do shit for you, but sit there and build point Two point whatever percent interest it's gonna get outran by inflation. Now what's your opinion on stocks?
Because that stocks are a gamble. You could be a strategist with it, but at the end of the day, it really is a gamble. So, well, it depends on how you do it and if you're smart with it or not. Obviously you need to research need to figure out what you're doing. And stocks can be a gamble, but you can obviously make calculated guesses.
Right. As long as you're somewhat okay with it. If you do, you should look at stocks as a long term goal, not a short term. People who like to look at stocks like, Oh, I'm going to make money tomorrow. Yeah. Day trading is very risky, but if you look at a business over five weeks or months at a time, or play the system that way, I wouldn't even go for that.
I'd go for years. If I'm going to put my money into investment portfolio, it's just like a savings. It's just like savings, but it's going to make you way more money. And if you say, okay, I don't need this money. This is all going. I look at money that I invest in a, in an investment portfolio as money that I don't need anymore.
That's going to make me more money. So I put it in there. I'm not going to touch it probably for years. So when you say investment portfolio, what exactly are you referring? Are you saying you invest in commodities or? Uh, investment portfolio is mostly stocks, but like you can, you get with a stock broker who's pretty successful at their job, discuss with them what your goals are and what you're trying to do.
I normally tell them I have long term investment goals and dude, that's what they, yeah, that's what they do. And I'll normally just keep funneling money in there and I funnel, I max out my RA, my IRA every year or TSP. Right. Max it out every single year. Of course. So. Yeah. And again with the economy, it's always a risk, but you would say stocks over savings or invest in investment.
Investment whether it's into a house, into real estate, stocks, bonds, any investment is going to be a better option, especially in your twenties. Dude, like, what are you saving in your 20s? I've been thinking about bonds myself, where, you know, I thought it was just, you pay half the amount of the bond, and then when it ages, reaches maturity, you It's that value.
But when I went to cash in bonds the other day, they said it actually could be worth even more than its face value because of economic changes. And there's actually a thing you can look up online. So I've yet to look up how much my bonds are worth. These are ones that my parents got for me years ago.
I'm talking, 20 years ago, when I was first born. And if you're a new parent, honestly, I know some people think bonds is a lame gift, but honestly. When your child is 18, 20, just starting off in life, college, military, whatever it is, taking a gap year, which we don't recommend, but just getting that, you know, just a swack ton of money, just that little chunk can really help them out.
Yeah, and I think it's a good gift and it doesn't cost you that much. I mean, it's a way you're paying half or less for what they get. Yeah. It's a way you can kind of give 'em a pay for their first year of college or something like that. Right. But yeah. Yeah. I would just say like, especially in your twenties, man, like.
You should be working as much as you possibly can. You're still young. You're still healthy. Why would you not work the extra shift or pick up the extra shift or work the overtime or work the second job? That was the time. Yeah, and then you take that extra money and you put it into something that's gonna make you money.
Whether it's a investment portfolio or real estate or whatever for sure and start an LLC like one thing, you know, you start an LLC whatever it is, you know, just something that's gonna in your 30 into your 40s when you're starting to have to slow down, you now have some stuff, your money is now making you enough money to where you're like, okay, I can slow down on my job.
I can work eight hours a day. Okay. And right this day off, I can take this week off. It's not that big of a deal in your twenties. Why do you even work the holidays? Because look, you just, when you're in your twenties, you just had your whole childhood, most people with your family doing the holidays.
Right. And you're like, man, I miss doing that. And I want to do that. But what's more important is being successful enough that you can have the holidays with the family you create. And have your family provided for there too. And I know it sucks missing out on the holidays and even working weekends, but trust me, when you're older, you're going to want those weekends off.
You're going to want the holidays off. It's going to be a lot more to you, especially if you're single right now and in your twenties, like focus on yourself. I know so many people are like, man, all my friends have girlfriends and boyfriends and everything. But if you're single. Use that to your advantage and work on yourself and work on your future.
I would agree with you, especially as a man, but I think as a man, your value raises with time because you gain more status, you gain more money, you get more in shape, as long as you're working out consistently, right. All through your twenties. By the time you hit 30, you'll probably, as long as you're eating somewhat healthy the whole time, you'll probably be in probably the best shape of your life.
Like, right. Repeat. Third, 25 to 30, but I would disagree for women. I think as you reach your thirties and you start hitting that higher number, your value is harder to find you. Yeah. So I would recommend as a woman, I would say capitalize on your twenties to find the best man that you can, because in your twenties, it's going to be the time you're the most beautiful, your metabolism's the fastest, you can probably get in the best shape that, because once you hit your thirties, you start to slow down.
You're not as beautiful as you were when you were 21 23, whatever, 24. So I would say as a woman, you know, capitalize on your twenties and maybe find that older successful dude, that 30 year old, that 35 year old, who's already went through his twenties and a successful and good shape and is look, is now looking for to settle down, look, is looking this because he's already matured at that point.
He's not trying to go around and party and have affairs. He's probably actually looking for a wife material at that point. So if you're 22, 23, 24 year old woman, and you're looking for that, you're looking to settle down, I would say, yeah. You can go for that 30 year old successful guy who's actually looking to settle down.
He's not like, I wouldn't say the millionaires, cause they're not gonna be monogamous. Right. They're gonna, they might be. You might be their main chick, but they're going to have some side chicks, some other things going on. You know, they're millionaires. They can afford to have more than one chick.
It's just how it is. It's sad, but it's how it is. Maybe, maybe there's some out there who are, I mean, do you, statistically, do you really want to, You think you're that, that 0. 5 percent of, you know, I think you're that top 0. 5 percent or you're going to be lucky enough to, you know, get that top 0. 5 percent top 0.
1%. You should have to look at it from a numbers point of view, man. Numbers is the easiest thing to make people understand, like what your chances are, like, right. Do you want a 1 percent chance? The best part about these numbers is some people are like, these rigid defining numbers. You can change where in that percentage for anything, pretty much that we've talked about where you fall through a really basic routine of eating healthy, taking care of yourself, working out, working hard at your job.
And that can just change where percentage wise you are, you know, people want to say, man, I'll never make it to that top percent. I'm a strong believer. It's your mindset. Hard work always pays off. Like I said, I'm a man of God. I don't think God is going to look down on you working your absolute hardest in every aspect of life.
Right. And be like, you know what? There's no way that guy's going to be successful. There's no way that you can tell me you worked your absolute hardest every single day at every aspect of life, eating right. and if you can find somebody out there who genuinely did that and looks me in the eyes and says, no, I'm there's no way I'm not successful in life.
And I worked my absolute hardest in every aspect of life. There's, they don't exist. Every person who does that is some, either a six figure dude, a millionaire. They're successful man or woman. If they go in life. And work their absolute hardest in every aspect. There is no, there's, you're not going to find a person and introduce them to me that they say, yeah, I worked my absolute hardest in the gym, in my career and in everything, and I'm not successful.
No, bro, that doesn't exist. It doesn't exist. There's always something that they did that they could have worked a little harder on, or they missed an opportunity because they were lazy and wanted to sit home at the couch, or they skipped some days in the gym, or they slacked on their diet. There's always a reason.
There's always a reason. It's about balance. We're not saying you can't. Eat junk food or go to parties or you know take time off for yourself, but You've got to make up for that, you can't just indulge yourself in the pleasures of life constantly you gotta make up for that and that's about that discipline.
Well, yeah, I would say that was pretty motivating So thank you. He has given us the techniques to bulldoze your way through life through depression through You know, a lack of motivation and any mindsets that might be blocking you.
